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If you find yourself in the ironic position of having delivered the spoils of a successful career to the feet of your Queen -- and what that looks like is a lifestyle that most women could only ever dream about -- yet, your wife tells you that she’s not happy... and the lifestyle you’ve worked so hard for is not enough... If in your heart you know you’re a good man... a Christian believer, who loves his wife and hasn’t done anything really terrible to her... it’s just that for whatever reason... the love you feel inside -- no matter how much you want her to see it, and feel it -- seems locked inside you... and it is not resonating with her... And you understand that all of your business success is worthless without the love of your life to share it with -- but also that with her in your corner... what you’ve built in your high-achieving, successful, professional career life has the potential to create a lifestyle that is exactly what you dream of creating... with a loving, comforting, appreciative, supportive, respectful, and playful partner... what that looks like for you, for her, for your kids, and for what you want to give back to others? Is the Have It All Life. Well, my brother. You’re in the right place. In this pod-cast... which you’ll often hear me refer to as Bob-Cast, and The Book of Bob... I detail my own journey... of building a big, global business... that has touched every single person in the U.S. and most people in the world... And how, looking back, there was a clear relationship showing that the more successful I became in business, the less successful I became in marriage... resulting in the two of us sharing tremendous financial success... AND... a very miserable marriage... And more importantly how I fixed it. So if you’ve ever wondered... ”How can a man have a big business that matters... and a big marriage and family life that makes everything worth it... all at the same time... in a way that he creates synergy... such that the better his business gets, the easier and happier his marriage gets... and the easier and happier his marriage gets... the better his business gets... then, my brother... this.is. for. you.W Welcome to the Have It All Marriage for the Have It All Life.
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Tuesday Feb 20, 2024
Tuesday Feb 20, 2024
In this episode, we cover three simple yet effective ways to make your wife feel more loved than ever before. Even if your communication is currently falling on deaf ears and your efforts seem unappreciated, these actionable steps backed by biblical lessons can turn your situation around.
The first step is about redemption and patience. We encourage you to be the source of unconditional understanding, the safe space where she is allowed to be human, to have her ups and downs without being judged or punished. Just as Jesus Christ receives us with an abundance of love, kindness, and forgiveness even when we wrong him, try to rise above your frustrations and meet her indiscretions with the redemptive Christ-like forgiving love.
The second step urges you to lead with Christian masculinity. Without becoming a harsh ruler, lead your wife in a self-sacrificial way, just as Jesus did. Resist the temptation to misuse your power. Instead, use your strength and authority to serve your wife and make her feel cherished and safe. God wants us to lead out of love, not self-interest, reminding us to steer clear from practices that can make our loved ones feel worthless, isolated, and ashamed.
In the third step, you are reminded to put your wife second only to God. Let her feel loved by not making her compete with your work, hobbies, children, or self-interests. Prioritize her, be present for her and make her feel like she's the most important thing in your life. As Jesus gives us first priority, let's mirror that with our wives.
By following these steps, not only will you make your wife feel loved, you also strengthen the bond and spiritual connection in your marriage. For more guidance on this transformation journey, visit www.realmanrevolution.com.